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什么是吸引力法则？
简而言之就是你所思所想的内容会以某种方式在现实生活中体现出来，你的主导性思维会找到途径显现为现实。
但吸引力法则也引发了一些看似难以回答的棘手问题。不过，我认为这些问题并非源自吸引力法则本身，而是在将吸引力法套用于客观现实时所造成的。
以下是一些这类有疑问的问题（均概括自我收到的电子邮件）：
- 当两个人同时争取同一职位晋升机会，而岗位却仅限一个时，这种意图的冲突会导致什么后果？
- 儿童、婴儿、动物等是否也能产生意图？
- 如果一个孩子遭受虐待，这是否在某种程度上反映出孩子自身的意图是如此。
- 如果我期望我们的关系能有所改善，但伴侣似乎对此毫不关心，结果会如何？
这些问题似乎削弱了吸引力法则的可信度。有时，人们会给出一些非常离谱的解释。比如，有些吸引力法则的信徒认为，小孩遭受虐待是因为他/她在前世有意引发这种结果或是“应得”的报应。
确实，如果我们把前世因果考虑进来，似乎能对任何事情给出解释，但我认为，这种做法其实是在回避问题。而从另一个角度来看，如果剔除吸引力法则，仅凭客观现实同样无法给出满意的解答——似乎有的孩子生来就注定不幸。这样的解释，同样是在逃避问题的本质。
我从未被他人对这些问题的回答所说服，但如果要相信吸引力法则，这些问题无疑非常关键。一些书籍暗示了解决之道，但从未真正击中要害。而这个要害，恰恰可以在主观实相的概念中找到。
主观现实是一种信念系统，其核心观点包括：(1)意识只有一个；(2)你就是那唯一的意识；(3)你所经历的一切及周遭的每一个人都是你意识的投射。
虽然你可能还未意识到，但主观现实实际上为吸引力法则中那些复杂的问题提供了巧妙的答案。接下来让我来详细解释。
在主观现实观念下，意识只有一个，那就是你的意识。因此，你的宇宙里，意图的源头只有一个——那就是你。
尽管你的现实中可能充满了形形色色、行动与交谈的人们，但实际上他们全都存在于你的意识之中。就像你知道自己的梦境运作机制一样，但你可能还没认识到，你醒着时的现实，其实也不过是另一种形式的梦境。它之所以显得如此真实、坚固，完全是因为你相信（有意为之）它是这样的。
在这个观念框架下，你遇到的其他角色并不是独立于你存在的有意识实体，因此，除了你之外，没有人能够拥有自己的意愿。在这个宇宙里，你是唯一能够思考的存在。
理解主观现实中的“你”极为关键。“你”并不指你的肉体。这与自我中心的概念完全不同。我的意思不是说你是一个在一个由无意识的机器人填满的世界里行走的有意识的生物。这种理解与主观现实的真正含义完全相悖。正确的理解应该是，你是这个现实世界中唯一的意识所在。
不妨想象一下，你正在做梦。在梦中，真正的“你”是什么？是你认同的那个物质层面的梦中角色吗？当然不是，那不过是你在梦中的化身。真正的“你”，是做梦的人。整个梦境发生在你的意识之中，所有的梦中角色，包括你的化身，都是你梦中意识的投射。事实上，如果你掌握了清醒梦的技巧，你甚至可以在梦中通过控制另一个角色来更换你的形象。在清醒梦里，你可以做任何自己相信能够做到的事情。
物质现实的运作原理与之相同。我们所处的这个宇宙，密度比睡梦中的经历要大，因此变化在这里发生得稍微慢一些。但这个现实依然按照你的思维模式运作，就如同睡梦一样。在所有这一切中，你是梦境的主导者。
认为他人有自己的意图，不过是一种错觉，因为其他人只是你意识投射的产物。当然，如果你坚定地相信他人有意图，那么你将为自己构建出这样一个梦境。但归根结底，这还是一场幻觉。
以下是主观现实如何解答那些围绕吸引力法则的棘手问题：
Q：当两个人同时争取同一职位晋升机会，而岗位却仅限一个时，这种意图的冲突会导致什么后果？
你是现实世界中唯一的“意图者”，这完全是一场发生在你内心的冲突。你心中同时怀有两个人想要同一个职位的念头，但你又认为只有一个人能够得到。因此，你实际上是在促成一场竞争。
整个情形都是你创造出来的。你相信竞争的存在，因此你最终呈现了竞争。或许你对谁将获得晋升有一定的信念（思维和意图），在这种情况下，你的期望将会变成现实。
但如果你有一个更高层次的信念，认为生活是随机的、不公平的、不确定的等等，那么你可能会显现出一个意外的惊喜，因为那正是你所期望的。
由于你是唯一的“意图者”，这完全是一场发生在你内心的冲突。你持有这样的意图：两个人都想要同一个职位。但你也在想，只有一个人能得到它。
因此，你实际上是在促成一场竞争。整个情形都是你创造出来的。你相信竞争的存在，因此你最终呈现了竞争。
也许你对谁会获得晋升有一些想法和意图，在这种情况下，你的期望就会成真。但你可能有一个更高层次的信念，即生活是随机的、不公平的、充满不确定性的，等等。所以在这种情况下，你可能会遇到意外，因为那正是你所期望的。
作为现实中唯一的“意图者”，这赋予了你巨大的责任。你可以通过意图的随机性和不确定性来放弃对现实的控制，但你永远无法逃避责任。
在这个宇宙中，你是唯一的创造者。如果你思考战争、贫穷、疾病等，这正是你要呈现的。如果你思考和平、爱和快乐，你也将显现出这些。你的现实世界正是你所认为的那样。每当你思考任何事情时，你都在召唤它的显现。
Q：儿童、婴儿、动物等是否也能产生意图？
不会。即使是你自己的身体也不会表达意图——只有你的意识才会。你是唯一有意图的人，所以最重要的是你打算在你的现实中为儿童、婴儿和动物创造什么。
每一个想法都是一种意图，所以，你如何看待现实中的其他生命，最终将决定你为他们显现出什么样的结果。
请记住，信念是有层次的。如果你有一个更高层次的信念，即现实是随机的、不可预测且不受你控制的，那么这个意图就会压倒其他你不太确定的意图。正是你所有意识的集合，决定了你的现实如何显现。
Q：如果一个孩子遭受虐待，这是否在某种程度上反映出孩子自身的意图是如此？
不是。这意味着是你有这个意图。仅仅通过思考，你就让儿童虐待的现象在你的现实中显现出来。你越是思考儿童虐待（或任何其他话题），你就越会在你的现实中看到它的扩散。
你所思考的任何事物都会扩散，这种扩散不仅仅局限于你的化身空间，而是会波及到整个物理现实。
Q：如果我期望我们的关系能有所改善，但伴侣似乎对此毫不关心，结果会如何？
The Law of Attraction
August 18, 2006
The Law of Attraction simply says that you attract into your life whatever you think about. Your dominant thoughts will find a way to manifest. But the Law of Attraction gives rise to some tough questions that don’t seem to have good answers. I would say, however, that these problems aren’t caused by the Law of Attraction itself but rather by the Law of Attraction as applied to objective reality.
Here are some of those problematic questions (all are generalizations of ones I received via email):
What happens when people put out conflicting intentions, like two people intending to get the same promotion when only one position is available?
Do children, babies, and/or animals put out intentions?
If a child is abused, does that mean the child intended it in some way?
If I intend for my relationship to improve, but my spouse doesn’t seem to care, what will happen?
These questions seem to weaken the plausibility of the Law of Attraction. Sometimes people answer them by going pretty far out. For example, it’s been said by LoAers that a young child experiences abuse because s/he intended it or earned it during a past life. Well, sure… we can explain just about anything if we bring past lives into the equation, but IMO that’s a cop-out. On the other hand, objective reality without the Law of Attraction doesn’t provide satisfactory answers either — supposedly some kids are just born unlucky. That’s a cop-out too.
I’ve never been satisfied by others’ answers to these questions, and they’re pretty important questions if the Law of Attraction is to be believed. Some books hint at the solution but never really nail it. That nail, however, can be found in the concept of subjective reality.
Subjective reality is a belief system in which (1) there is only one consciousness, (2) you are that singular consciousness, and (3) everything and everyone in your reality is a projection of your thoughts.
You may not see it yet, but subjective reality neatly answers all these tricky Law of Attraction questions. Let me ‘splain….
In subjective reality there’s only one consciousness, and it’s yours. Consequently, there’s only one source of intentions in your universe — YOU. While you may observe lots of walking, talking bodies in your reality, they all exist inside your consciousness. You know this is how your dreams work, but you haven’t yet realized your waking reality is just another type of dream. It only seems solid because you believe (intend) it is.
Since none of the other characters you encounter are conscious in a way that’s separate from you, nobody else can have intentions. The only intentions are yours. You’re the only thinker in this universe.
It’s important to correctly define the YOU in subjective reality. YOU are not your physical body. This is not the egoic you at all. I’m not suggesting you’re a conscious body walking around in a world full of unconscious automatons. That would be a total misunderstanding of subjective reality. The correct viewpoint is that you’re the single consciousness in which this entire reality takes place.
Imagine you’re having a dream. In that dream what exactly are YOU? Are YOU the physical dream character you identify with? No, of course not — that’s just your dream avatar. YOU are the dreamer. The entire dream occurs within your consciousness. All dream characters are projections of your dream thoughts, including your avatar. In fact, if you learn lucid dreaming, you can even switch avatars in your dream by possessing another character. In a lucid dream, you can do anything you believe you can.
Physical reality works the same way. This is a denser universe than what you experience in your sleeping dreams, so changes occur a bit more gradually here. But this reality still conforms to your thoughts just like a sleeping dream. YOU are the dreamer in which all of this is taking place.
The idea that other people have intentions is an illusion because other people are just projections. Of course, if you strongly believe other people have intentions, then that’s the dream you’ll create for yourself. But ultimately it’s still an illusion.
Here’s how subjective reality answers these challenging Law of Attraction questions:
What happens when people put out conflicting intentions, like two people intending to get the same promotion when only one position is available?
Since you’re the only intender, this is entirely an internal conflict — within YOU. You’re holding the thought (the intention) for both people to want the same position. But you’re also thinking (intending) that only one can get it. So you’re intending competition. This whole situation is your creation. You believe in competition, so that’s what you manifest. Maybe you have some beliefs (thoughts and intentions) about who will get the promotion, in which case your expectations will manifest. But you may have a higher order belief that life is random, unfair, uncertain, etc., so in that case you may manifest a surprise because that’s what you’re intending.
Being the only intender in your reality places a huge responsibility on your shoulders. You can give up control of your reality by thinking (intending) randomness and uncertainty, but you can never give up responsibility. You’re the sole creator in this universe. If you think about war, poverty, disease, etc., that’s exactly what you’ll manifest. If you think about peace, love, and joy, you’ll manifest that too. Your reality is exactly what you think it is. Whenever you think about anything, you summon its manifestation.
Do children, babies, and/or animals put out intentions?
No. Your own body doesn’t even put out intentions — only your consciousness does. You’re the only one who has intentions, so what takes precedence is what YOU intend for the children, babies, and animals in your reality. Every thought is an intention, so however you think about the other beings in your reality is what you’ll eventually manifest for them. Keep in mind that beliefs are hierarchical, so if you have a high order belief that reality is random and unpredictable and out of your control, then that intention will trump other intentions of which you’re less certain. It’s your entire collection of thoughts that dictates how your reality manifests.
If a child is abused, does that mean the child intended it in some way?
No. It means YOU intended it. You intend child abuse to manifest simply by thinking about it. The more you think about child abuse (or any other subject), the more you’ll see it expand in your reality. Whatever you think about expands, and not just in the narrow space of your avatar but in all of physical reality.
If I intend for my relationship to improve, but my spouse doesn’t seem to care, what will happen?
This is another example of intending conflict. You’re projecting one intention for your avatar and one for your spouse, so the actual unified intention is that of conflict. Hence the result you experience, subject to the influence of your higher order beliefs, will be to experience conflict with your spouse. If your thoughts are conflicted, your reality is conflicted.
This is why assuming responsibility for your thoughts is so important. If you want to see peace in the world, then intend peace for EVERYTHING in your reality. If you want to see abundance in the world, then intend it for EVERYONE. If you want to enjoy loving relationships, then intend loving relationships for ALL. If you intend these only for your own avatar but not for others, then you’re intending conflict, division, and separation; consequently, that’s what you’ll experience.
If you stop thinking about something entirely, does that mean it disappears? Yes, technically it does. But in practice it’s next to impossible to uncreate what you’ve already manifested. You’ll continue creating the same problems just by noticing them. But when you assume 100% responsibility for everything you’re experiencing in your reality right now — absolutely everything — then you assume the power to alter your reality by rechanneling your thoughts.
This entire reality is your creation. Feel good about that. Feel grateful for the richness of your world. And then begin creating the reality you truly want by making decisions and holding intentions. Think about what you desire, and withdraw your thoughts from what you don’t want. The most natural, easiest way to do this is to pay attention to your emotions. Thinking about your desires feels good, and thinking about what you don’t want makes you feel bad. When you notice yourself feeling bad, you’ve caught yourself thinking about something you don’t want. Turn your focus back towards what you do want, and your emotional state will improve rapidly. As you do this repeatedly, you’ll begin to see your physical reality shift too, first in subtle ways and then in bigger leaps.
I too am just a manifestation of your consciousness. I play the role you expect me to play. If you expect me to be a helpful guide, I will be. If you expect me to be profound and insightful, I will be. If you expect me to be confused or deluded, I will be. But of course there’s no distinct ME that is separate from YOU. I’m just one of your many creations. I am what you intend me to be. But deep down you already knew that, didn’t you?
https://stevepavlina.com/blog/2006/08/the-law-of-attraction/
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